THE FIRST ALTERNATIVE
TO DOUCHING 

No Douching required.
Made of body safe materials.
Lube. Relax. Insert.

  • “This was the best bottoming sex of my life. I relaxed and was able to just focus on the moment rather than feel anxiety about losing control. We had sex twice and I climaxed twice. THIS HAS NEVER HAPPENED BEFORE WHEN I HAVE BEEN BOTTOMING.“

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  • "I didn’t feel it. It just felt very smooth."

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  • "I felt like there was perhaps a little more sensation around the head of my penis than usual, similar to how it feels to tap at the sigmoid. I liked that sensation. Otherwise it felt completely normal."

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  • “It's definitely less fuss than douching and the sex was better.“

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  • “It feels very natural to use. No real preparation required. Just lube the A-BALL and go.”

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  • “A-BALL makes me feel confident that faeces will not appear during sex“

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  • “Fun to use, and really easy.“

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  • “There’s just something playful about it. It’s quite fun. I like that. I guess it’s a bit like a sex toy.“

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  • “It even became kind of a fun part of sex to put it in.“

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  • “There was something kind of novel about it. It felt a bit silly, in a way that introduced playfulness into sex.“

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  • “I liked the feeling of pushing the A-BALL into my partner. It felt really sexy.“

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  • “When we had sex with it, I was the one that put it in, and that was kind of hot as well.“

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  • “Sometimes as a gay man you start to get hot, and then the other person says, “Okay, I just need to go prepare,” and it can be five minutes or it can be 25 minutes. So you kind of have to settle down and then restart.Whereas with A-BALL, it was just like, “Okay, let’s lube up the A-BALL,” and off you go. That was the game changer."

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  • “I think it works beyond the base level. I mean the confidence piece. The reduction in anxiety, but also the spontaneity. Spontaneity is something people don’t necessarily think enough about, and that felt huge.”

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HOW DOES IT WORK?

HOW DOES IT WORK?

How to get it in your bum?

Easy, babes. The ball is soft enough to slip in comfortably but sturdy enough to act as a barrier between the faeces and whatever’s going in next (be it a penis or toy). Just smooth spontaneous, hot connection all the way.  

How do you get it out in the end?

Don’t worry, it will soften into a faeces like texture. No extra effort needed; just let nature do its thing and let it slide out of you with your next bowel movement.

Done in no time

Who has time for a 45-minute toilet tango? Not you. Our ball gets your butt-ready faster than conventional douching, so you can skip the waiting and slide straight into the good stuff.

No lengthily bathroom breaks

No waiting for the water to run clear. A-BALL is making preparation simpler and more discreet.

Less stress, more connection

Say goodbye to mood-killing preparation that leads to tension, misunderstandings, or skipped intimacy. With A-BALL, you’re ready when the moment’s right - so your partner feels wanted, not waited on.

Our Mission

Anal health has been overlooked for far too long. And so has pleasure, specifically anal pleasure. For decades, people have been left with limited options, limited research and even less conversation.

At Polari Labs, we’re building products that are Anus Kind: designed to work with your body, not make you question it. Because wanting anal sex shouldn’t come with 30 minutes of preparation and leave you questioning your body. Bodies are bodies. Sometimes they’re predictable. Sometimes they absolutely are not.

We want better research, better tools and better conversations around anal health and pleasure. Because not talking about anal sex has never stopped people from having it. It has only stopped people from having the information and choices they deserve.

Polari Labs is here to make anal health Anus Kind.
Bottoms deserve better.

ALL OUT - a mini documentary by Jon Dean

A look inside our lab, our team behind A-BALL, and why we believe anal health and pleasure deserve better research, better tools and a lot more conversation.

From a slightly mad idea to building something that could genuinely change how people prepare for anal sex.

OUR ADVISORS

OUR ADVISORS

Dr Chris McCormack​

​Psychosexual Therapist I 56 Dean Street

​Colorectal Surgeon I co-director Hemorrhoids Center of America

Dr Carmen Fong​

PRESS

PRESS

OUR PARTNERS

OUR PARTNERS

OUR TEAM

OUR TEAM

Dr Pantelitsa Dimitriou

Paris Patience

Aliesha Pedro

Dr Henry Blest

Hanny Amin